Caring for our children with special needs is often a full-time job, which leaves little time and energy for the wholesome nurturing of ourselves; the tired, overworked and undernourished special needs parents. I’m talking chocolate, caffeine, shopping; whatever you need to get you through the day. As a veteran special needs mom of a 10 year old, I know that there is no shortage of items on your to do list. Therefore, I propose a list of “To- Don’ts” that hopefully will help you breathe easier, live more calmly and feel more taken care of. Here are the five classic…